By Brook Jones, UBC student
Living in residence with dozens of peers, and no parents, is probably new to you. And there are a few adjustments youâ€™ll have to make. Luckily, the key to success is summed up in one word: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Thatâ€™s how Aretha Franklin spelled it, and who am I to argue with the First Lady of Soul? The only way to keep these shared living spaces from falling into utter chaos is by showing respect for your roommates, housemates and floor mates.
One of the great things about living in residence is being close to friends and peers. But it can sometimes be a drawback. For example, everyone has his or her own standard of acceptable noise levels, which can vary depending on the time of day, day of the week, and so on. Realize that youâ€™re a member of an academic community. You need to respect your neighboursâ€™ noise level needs and they need to respect yours. If you can do that, and be willing to compromise, youâ€™ll definitely be able to make residence livable.
Clean up your act
Cleanliness is another area where respect is paramount. Youâ€™ll share hallways, a lounge and, possibly, a room. And each one of you has his or her own definition of acceptable cleanliness. Itâ€™s important to establish standards and cleaning responsibilities. With common areas itâ€™s simple:
- Be tidy.
- Donâ€™t let food rot in the fridge.
- Clean your dirty dishes.
Housekeeping staff tidies common areas, but only the basics. Leaving a large mess might result in your floor being charged for the cleanup.
Talk it out
Respect for others is the guiding principle of residence contracts, which all residents agree to before moving in. For questions, or if you feel disrespected, contact your Residence Advisor. He or she will try to help resolve the situation. In the end, a little Aretha goes a long way.