While taking care of our bodies, we often neglect the health of the human spirit and soul. Many health practitioners have found a definiÂtive link between stress and disease. Theyâ€™re increasingly saying that to be healthy, one must acknowledge the importance of spirituality.
Flex those soul muscles
Countless people who have survived near-catastrophic experiences say that what got them through was using the â€śmuscles of the soulâ€ť, those inner resources that help dismantle and transcend roadblocks on lifeâ€™s journey. These roadblocks could be bad relationships, cancerous tumours, alcoholic parents or even a flat tire during rush hour.
The muscles of the soul include courage, faith, humour, patience, compassion, imaginaÂtion, humility, forgiveness, intuition, creativity, optimism, honesty and love. They are what people draw upon in times of crisis and catastrophe. And they are not gifts for a chosen few. They are birthrights for everyone. But, like our physical muscles, they will atrophy if not used.
Live up to your potential
We each have the potential to be spiritually healthy and to engage our spiritual muscles regularly. In times of change, which often produce stress, we need to be in good spiritual health, flexing these muscles and feeling the strength they provide.
Train for spiritual fitness
Here are some tips to follow:
- Be open to the possibility that there might be more to learn in life than already you know.
- Search for friends who challenge you to live a little better.
- Take time every day to be silent.
- Visit UBC Botanical Garden for quiet reflection.
- When you hear something in the silence, examine it to see if there is any message of challenge or comfort in it.
- Figure out what you think and believe independently of what the media or friends tell you.
- Practise forgiving small slights or insultsâ€”they make you dwell on the negative.
- Seek out like-minded people who can support your spiritual fitness goals, and consider revisiting the faith backÂground you grew up with or your family is most familiar with.
- Be accepting of other peopleâ€™s spiritual views.